Jada, who often uses her Facebook page to give advice and share her thoughts on different issues, yesterday advised an unnamed friend on how to deal with her divorce.

Jada writes,

Letter to a friend:

You are divorced. Your ex-husband is not being kind or considerate, but you can't harp on it because it steals the energy that should be given to your potential and power. At the end of the day, your survival is at risk, and you complaining about what he is not doing and what he should be doing does not change your circumstances.

Continue to read the rest of the letter BUT there's something more hilarious after the cut...someone replied Jada on FB and the reply got so many likes. God forgive me for posting it..so horrible. Lol.



 Jada's advice continues

We have to use these circumstances to analyze what we need to do different, how do we need to strengthen, and how we need to be more. You are strong and capable, and now you have been put in a position where you must use your capabilities to change your circumstances without your ex's help or kindness.

In the ideal world, the circumstances in which you and your children are facing are unacceptable, but the most painful realization I have had about this life is that we are not entitled to anyone's kindness or consideration. THAT, is a painful truth.

Stay focused and keep it moving.

J

Now the reply from a fan...

Dear Jada,

Please pretty please stop giving unsolicited advise. In case you have not notice, but your family is f-ed up. Your husband goes on romantic getaways with other men. Your daughter is been molested by an old perv and your son is being seduced by a pimp's daughter. You look like you have not eaten in years. Please take care of your family first.

Signed,
Get off of facebook

P.S.- Don't you have deal with all those illiterate children from your school?

Not nice! :-). For those who have not heard about the school...read below...

The school that Will and Jada Pinkett Smith founded has been shut down. The New Village Leadership Academy — which was located near the couple’s Calabasas mansion, has been troublesome for their marriage since it opened in 2008. A source told the site, “Will told Jada from the start that opening this school could be a legal nightmare. He never wanted to do it.”

The school began facing troubles when rumors surfaced that the couple was reportedly using “Study Technology” — which was developed by Scientology founder L. Ron Hubbard. This also resulted in accusations that the school had an affiliation with the controversial church.

The site additionally reported that the school struggled with finances that piled up more than $1 million in liabilities by 2011, although Will and Jada charged its students between $7,500 and $12,000 in tuition.

Another source explained that there have been students who went there and claimed that they couldn’t even read when they got out of sixth grade.